I want to start by saying that the movie "tough guise" really irritated me, Allthough the content was good and interesting I felt like the guy kept saying the same thing over and over and over again. I wish I had counted the number of times he went back to media . . . And what made it worse was he would talk about media then another influence and then go back to media so at first I was like huh what ? trying to follow what was going on and then it just started to go on repeat.

Now that thats out . . . I really did like the content of the movie I felt that alot of it was right on and I think Id like to talk to some of my guy friends about it to see what they think just so that I know. I liked the little bits of knowledge about how guns have become bigger as have male bodies yet female bodies are getting smaller. I was absoloutly APALLED at the howard stern comments though . . . It still amazes me that in todays society something like a school shooting could be used for humor and on top of that using rape as a part of it . . . It made me physically ill to hear those comments.

I was trying to think of places that guys were misrepresented or given weird ideas for what they should be that wearnt mentioned in the movie and I came up with the fact that we as females do it all the time probably without realizing it. Unconciously we tend to gravitate towards the males me find attractive (You can not tell personality from across the room) I know that they do it to but I think that both genders need to work on that. Another place where I think some work needs to be done is this conception that a guy who isnt interested in sex is a virgin or flawed, Im a christian and because of this I have met sooo many completly amazing and good lookig guys who are ot interested in hooking up or w/e and I think it makes them that much cooler. However not everyone seems to see it that way . . .

CASE STUDY
I know an amazing boy . . . absoloutly amazing were really close and we get along great hes 18 good lucking athletic well educated goal oriented overall good guy. He has never had a GF or kissed a girl at 18 when I mentioned this to one of my close friends her first reaction was "is he deformed?"


I think we can judge them in the opposite sense though I know a girl who recently started dating a guy. One of the the first questions she wanted answered before she started dating him was how many girls he had slept with. She said that if it had been a large number she would have jokingly called him a slut but would have gotten over it, Another thing she said was that her reasoning was she would liek to know how many girls she was in turn sleeping with. I think this makes alot of sense and I dont know many girls who would say its not justified. So why is it ok for us but not guys?

I think its really sad the the completly rotten guys have given all guys a bad reputation to the point where girls and guys can have the same manurisms but if a girl does it its fine but if the guy does it hes doing it maliciously. . . I dunno


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